i feel good,

i just helped someone
so here's what happened.... (its a long story)
my best friend roxie* was dating matt* for like 3 months
and i didnt find out untill about a month after they started dating
matt was a little bit obsessed with roxie and after a while she couldnt handle it anymore.
she didnt say yes to him in the first place because she felt bad if she said 'no' or just
because they were friends... infact up until his whole problem, she didnt regret dating him
im still not sure that she does.
now roxie is one of the nicest people anyone is sure to meet, i mean you could search the world and never find someone quite as nice as her. and its not just that... she funny, smart, has a great personality, kind heart, and if that wasnt enough, shes quite pretty if i do say so myself. and i have had the pleasure of knowing her since 2nd grade. [:
matt on the otherhand, is smart, can be funny, and a super nice person too. but i didnt know him until 7th grade so only about 2 years.
he adored her, i mean whats not to like about roxie??
but he was more like a lost puppy than a boyfrien. yes, he gave her a cute stuffed animal for valentines day and was a good boyfriend. but pretty soon... she was tired of the random awkward scilence that would fill the room randomly and him following her around 24/7. she knew that she had dragged it out far too long. and that she had to end it and that it would hurt him but continueung ut woulld be just that much worse. so one day... she ended it.
from then on, he has been totally depressed. he quit track, which was one of his favorite things to do. and started swearing... but i dont know much details about that. he skipped school .... mostly because he had the flu... but i think part of the time he was underthe weather but not from being sick.
but IT WASNT ROXIE'S FAULT!
i mean what was she to do?
she though he would get over her but....

three weeks past.
and that brings me to today.
i was talking to matt on facebook today.
he told me that he couldnt get over her and he still wont... he adores her.
literally that was the EXACT word he used.
not knowing him very well made it a little bit awkward. and even though hes still obviously depressed, i think my little lame-therapist-impression may have worked just a bit.
i told him that getting over roxie would be difficult and though people expect it to just happen, it doesnt work that way. everyone will have a different rate that their reactions happen just like chemicals. and you cant force a chemical reaction. you just have to let the chips fall where they may. matt will get over roxie... but only time can tell. so i think im going to ask mr. second hand just when that is. now im going to post this before it gets any longer and before i sound anymore like a fortune cookie :D
goodnight my love<3
-RGC





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